India on Sexual Harresment and Rape issue

Recent days, a News that makes all indians to worry and think about their own mankind.We believed indians are “mores”, But on witnessing the sexual  racism it brings fear that people might going to lost their assuage.

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Mother India

Recorded Rape is the fourth common crime against women in india, though we indians are multifarious in culture but term rape, nefarious to all.

A Survey split out that 24,923 rape cases were reported across India in 2012.Out of these, 24,470 were committed by someone known to the victim.

Nearly 98% rape were committed by known person to the victim, nuance rape is the only issue were victim is accused.

Capital New Delhi recorded  highest raw number of rape reports among Indian cities, lot of issues are widespread and collect the media attention but a recent victim jisha a law student who raped and brutally murdered (04.05.2016) failed to do that, if we searched for a reason it leads a political issue. Hoping that “Truth Triumphs” i’m going with my content .

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weather they are nondescript or oblivious to be get accused, they become nomadic nowadays  holding all power to run individually in this mighty world.

Fearing that myth, Harassment  going to be  a maxim, will leads to repetition of history where freedom will be abandoned.

whenever i felt mawkishly in hearing this issue, tended to investigate

               What makes the Men  to rape women?

A Major mistake done by all women is understand human behavior is that they analyze a single behavior on its own without taking into consideration the psychological make up of a person.

Both  Men and Women should palatable that “Sex can be an objective but it can also be an instrument that leads to the achievement of another objective”

But the term Desire ways to rape, form of Sexual Desire.Psychological Paramount (Character) of a single can’t be  similar with other, we can also put in this way that seven rapers could rape for 7 different reasons.

When the subconscious mind wants to force a person to satisfy a certain need it sometimes makes him believe that he is satisfying another need. In other words men who rape women might believe that they are doing it just to satisfy their sexual desire without realizing that there are other deep needs behind their motives.

Basic motive behind rape are:

Dealing with rejection

Feeling superior to women

We accept Women as Sakthi (Goddess), but in reality women should always inferior to men

Revenge

Compensation

Those who suffer good social life, privation on collegiality with women are pressured to undergo Rape attempt.

These are a few reason, another one major reason is there subjected to “Movie and a few serials”

Lot of youngsters are seduced due to events that strongly proclivity to glamour,School love etc.  They are come to entertain us not to adopt those thing in real life.

Minors undergoing rape:

It’s found that at least 1 in 3 victim are below 18 years in India. Of all rapes, 12.5% of total or 3,125 rape victims in India were a minor.

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Vikramjeet Sinha, Art, Drama Therapist and Development Worker, said

If I have to say who is the person, I will say anyone. There is no mark or visible signs written on someone’s face that he or she is a rapist or an abuser of small children. I think a lot of incest, rape and violence happens within respectable families. A lot of it is unreported, a lot of people don’t talk about it.

Unreported rapes :

As a fear of  retaliation and humiliation lot of victims unreported  the issue, we can’t blame them because we saw how media will promulgate if they come across these kind of incidents .

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Against one reported rape case, there are at least 30 cases which go unreported

Punishment for Sexual harassment

According to Indian Penal code 354A :

It’s our duty to know about our constitution regarding sexual harassment, propitious to all women and i’m pleased to share among everyone to take care herself. 

        A man committing any of the following acts

  1. Physical contact and advances involving unwelcome and explicit sexual overtures; or

    A demand or request for sexual favours; or

    Showing pornography against the will of a woman; or

    Making sexually coloured remarks, shall be guilty of the offence of sexual harassment

If above one thing is proven then he will be punished as 354A:

Rigorous imprisonment up to three years, or with fine, or with both in case of offence

Is Law should be modified?

Though we indians believe in nonviolence, our laws are not so strict one. we excepting  by those punishment, make others to don’t do it.

Reality getting punctilious one india is quite difficult job may end in pugnacious.

After the Anti Rape Bill of April 2013, culprits are liable to life imprisonment (which is actually 14 years), imprisonment for entire life and even the death sentence in the rarest of rare cases.

Several country follows different act like Death sentence in China,beheading in Saudi Arabia, hanged to death in Afghanistan.

Don’t know whether those countries have more respect over women or we lagging in it.At the same time Death can’t put end for those activity

My personal prescription is,

  it’s totally depends on

  • physiological reason it may vary with respect with time .undergoing proper counselling may avoid those Paramount.
  • Surround yourself with good people, putrid are there to spoil and trigger desire.
  • Rectitude is Sexual Education, is the only mantra to avoid all racism that happening to women. Indian Government should take proper amendments to implement like United States .Child-Sexual-Abuse-Lawyer-Attorney

The primary goal of sexuality education is to equip children and young people with the knowledge, skills and values to make responsible choices about their sexual and social
relationships in a world affected by HIV.

children and young people also need to learn about the risk of sexual exploitation and abuse in order to recognise these when they occur, to protect themselves as far as possible and to identify and access available sources of support.

It’s better to teach child a about good touch and bad touch, it safeguard them from strangers Click here to know about good and bad touch

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If Pulchritude Leads to sexual desire, then it should be punitive

Womens are maverick,  not an maudlin.

Abetting My Arms to Arms

                          Had successfully completed my fourteen years of schooling (including inter-garden ) and four years of Under graduation in stream of Electrical and Electronics Engineering as Bachelor Degree.

                            It’s my pleasure to abjure some worthy pennies, whom all gave me a good memory for my old age along with armchair .

 August 22, 2012, a blessed day, the first day in college life . Felt accentuate to enter the class lonely at the time, my sight gazed Balachandar, found we too belong to the same department . we Both made the way towards the respectful classroom with a single notebook.

Though its first day felt insecure, simply sat on the bench and saw the fresh faces with unknown fear.That time a person voluntarily gave me Intro .His name follows as Mahendran Durairasu, who’s native is Tirunelveli .

He is just an affable person to mingle, we are opted next to next room (Room no:129-130) .It’s very simple to adorn him such an adroit fellow I ever was seen . the thing needs to learn from him situation management,Smart worker, and affectionate one . whom I share everything till now .well-known to my family too, an analgesic fellow to me in all situation .one thing sure, his success may temporary postponed . he may slow but he never stops . His benevolent will pay one day .

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Snap with Mahendran

Next comes Akilan Guna, I’m boon to get him as roommate for past Three years in my hostel life, Heard there are a lot of misunderstanding between roommates but we stand as a good example without any tiff and false friendship.

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Snap with Akilan Guna

  • Bourgeois and boisterous fellow ever I saw in my life .You told

“At this moment, I need to say thanks for Dhinesh for making my studies Better, after started to sharing room with him”

In our Farewell party. a lot of them cherished but I capitulate to your above words where I’m broke in to tears .

                                      Fountain pen which you gave on my birthday and you asked me to keep it safe as your memory was chronicle.

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Memory from Akilan

On moving series with Gopinath Raja, A Divine amigo who shows a special carrying to me in all situation .A person who stood in my hard times.

                                Gopinath Raja- funny, fragile and idiotic one .

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A snap with Gopinath Raja and Mahendran

Still lot of my hostel mates Don’t know my name is Dhinesh, most of them call me as picko (alias) which was given to me by Manikandan Nsj, during my second semester . Elated memory till my last breath .

                                  His trust in me enamored, shows my flexibility .

“Based on my empirical, he has good management skill to move on.”

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A Snap with Manikandan Nsj

                                     Time to portray my crew members . Bhuvanesh, Azarudeen,Nagarajan and me.such an espouse buddies, in other words, the pillar of my development too (just for fun). crew founded over the fifth semester and exists till now .

                             our times went with exasperated, excursion and expedient.

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Master crew followed by me, Nagarajan,Bhuvanesh and Azarudeen

Once I felt shy to talk with Nagarajan ,though he is cognizance and diligent one but he enthralls me and results in formation of the crew with innocent and exalt Azarudeen and erudite and geek Bhuvanesh.

I also like to add some funny mates, arasu kennedy a person whom I never forget advise him to fail during Exams days even he too wishes me same .

Gokul, a strong and caring person and Gawtham Sibi, a good and ingenious attitude. These people are the opposite crew .(Twisters in action, well said)

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A Snap with Arasu, Gokul(spects guys)

It’s necessary to praise a few of my friends in the feminine. names which marquee are Brindha, Deepa, and Divya Bharathi .though by the alphabetical order I got them but they stood till my last semester and hoping it will continue .

 Brindha, first one to call me as Topper,by knowing I’m not worth it . Deepa, an intransigent but with a good instinct and Divya Bharathi a worthy interlocutor in my life and consider me as well-wisher .

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A Snap of Brindha,Deepa and Divya Bharathi

                              I wish this friendship must interminable till the end.

Goes with Kavya jeevanandam, limpid in her action and result oriented,.whenever we talk there must be a fight but it’s all goodness.sure, she will be trustworthy in her friendship and a good leader (promise).

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A Snap of Kavya Jeevanandam

Next is Rubika Elangovan, friendship at last moment but a worthy penny. a malleable person with good deeds and laughing face.she made a last-minute gift but I didn’t give anything to her other than my promise.

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A Snap of Rubika and Her Memory

Manifest fellow Mathusha Gunasundaram, a social networking friend till now, and forever may be . even though she to part of my institution but the possibility of seen her is zero.

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A snap of Mathusha

Though planned to meet at the end of the era too failed .Don’t know wheather this distance keeps us so friendly.hoping will hear her tone on her birthday if she allows.

                                         School buddies are everlasting till end

It’s an immense pleasure to Thank to my a few school buddies Soundaryan, Ashiq Basha , aarthy vivek, Bavadaarane and Rubala.

Soundaryan a best buddy from my eight grade to till now, new cinemas are mostly scheduled with him . finding mendacious in him is the difficult job.

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A  Snap of Soundaryan

Aarthy, me and ashiq basha the journey started from my matriculation . open-minded fellows to share everything . occasionally we all join by conference call, nocturnal moments while we started to chat, engaged by idiotic and funniness.

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A Snap of Aarty vivek and Ashiq Basha

Bavadaarane, first school friend to get in contact in the feminine. the thing I liked from her is, sort of Tamil words she used to chat that brings laugh around my cheek.we talk occasionally, if it takes place entire time will spend on our career and future planning . I wish it will continue bava.

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A Snap of Bavadaarane

Rubala Mohan, lot of people and come and go but some made benchmark .friend who understand others feeling and satisfy them.

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A Snap of Rubala Mohan

she is ostentatious and paragon in her action, patent in getting others,pliable with friends .

Though she has a lot of friends but there is one common thing between her and me (lol). By this blog, I’m obligated to say thanks for your birthday surprise to me, which took me one step ahead .

Friendship is delicate as a glass, once broken it can be fixed but there will always be crack.

I might miss a lot of my friends, it’s not pointing I’m not liking them,

         A Rose doesn’t need an advertisement, you guys are rose always with my heart.

          Thanks, friends , I wish u guys should with me in all path of my life.